Image Source: http://natsumewolf.deviantart.com/ I remembered the song sung during the Mirroring Workshop by Dehyana: there is only one of us, in your eyes, it’s me I see….”. 记得6-7 年前， 在 Dehyana镜像课程中唱着“ 这里只有一个我，在你眼里， 我看到自己”。很多时后， 我们都很容易的把手指指向外面， “这都是你的错，你伤害我，。。。。”你是受害者， 你生气， 不服气， 你感到很讨厌，你开始有了报复的念头。在镜像定律里， 那个错，指责， 生气， 讨厌， 老早已存在你内心里， 那个人只是把它们通通反射出来好让你有·那经验来帮助你心灵成长。也根据奇迹课程其中 一个的原则， 请你收回手指，把手指向里边指吧！ 述短来说，从心灵成长的角度， 我们还要 感恩那些激起我们的愤怒, 憎恨 的人， 事情／ 东西。 在人生／人际关系教练过程中， 教练会使用“反射”作为其中一个工具来 让被叫练者自我评估自己的想法、感觉、行为和行动，反映所期望的结果 … More The Law of Reflection/Mirroring 镜像定律
presence is being a present for another … More Presence
At different times in life, one may have different coaches to give feedback and guidance. Just like a ship sailing in the blue ocean, it relies on the Lighthouse’s signal for directions. The Lighthouse stands still; it just gives out signals to guide the ship. Whether the ship follows the signal or how the ship … More A Coach is Like a Light House
A COACH see you as NOW without referring to the past or future … More What is the difference between a coach, a friend or family member?
why financial life coaching? Financial as one important aspect of our life If you have done a self assessment tool called life wheel balance which is often used by a coach in goal setting to help the client create more balance and success in their life. You will notice financial is one important area/ aspect … More What is Financial Life Coaching?
While many ( referring to my home country)may still unclear about what the financial planning process actually encompassing, it is important to recap both financial planning and coaching. What is financial planning? Financial Planning Standards Board Ltd. (FPSB) defines financial planning as a “process of developing strategies to help people manage their financial affairs to … More Financial Coaching is one core ingredient in financial life planning