At different times in life, one may have different coaches to give feedback and guidance. Just like a ship sailing in the blue ocean, it relies on the Lighthouse’s signal for directions.
The Lighthouse stands still; it just gives out signals to guide the ship. Whether the ship follows the signal or how the ship navigates the direction is the choice of the ship. The Lighthouse will never express its own view for the choice made by the ship.
A coach may have different coaching style & method, yet a true coach’s starting point is always to support the coachee, all the way through and be the The Light That Never Goes Out; No Matter How Strong The Wind or How Big the Wave.